btchfest

What Makes a True Girl's Girl?

What defines a "girl's girl"? In this episode, we explore the traits that set her apart: she’s the friend who shows up for you, celebrates your wins, and stands by your side on tough days. A girl’s girl embodies support, kindness, and respect in her relationships with other women. But does this role always mean pure empowerment, or are there hidden expectations and pressures that come along with it?
 
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Why Don't Men Like Funny Women?

While plenty of men love a witty woman, there's a curious pattern: some men seem to feel uneasy or even resentful when a woman outshines them in humor. Why is that? Does it boil down to insecurity, gender expectations, or something deeper? Join us as we explore the social and psychological reasons why some men prefer being the funniest person in the room—and why, for some, a funny woman can feel like a challenge.
This week, we’re thrilled to welcome comedian and cultural critic Dana Kaye, who brings her insight into comedy, gender norms, and relationships. Dana shares her thoughts on why some men feel uncomfortable or intimidated by funny women and whether this stems from insecurity or even subconscious bias. We’ll dig into the difference in criticisms that male and female comics face and explore Dana’s experience as a queer comic in a world where humor is prized for its creative, problem-solving edge.
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For more information on Dana and her comedy schedule, please visit DanaKaye.com.

Why Do Women Lie To Their Doctor?

Have you ever told a little white lie to your doctor about your weight, your symptoms, or how you're truly feeling? If so, you're not alone—and this episode is for you.
Join hosts Ami and Sami as they dive deep into the reasons why many women find themselves withholding information or stretching the truth during medical appointments. Drawing from personal experiences, they share moments when they've been less than honest with their doctors and explore what motivated those choices. Was it fear of judgment, past experiences of not being believed, or simply the pressure to "have it all together"?
We'll also be joined by our special guest, Myrra Windau, a seasoned Physician Assistant, who provides great insight from the other side of the exam room. She sheds light on how healthcare providers perceive patient honesty, the importance of open communication, and the challenges they face when patients aren't fully transparent. 
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Why Does Representation Matter?

Ever since we were kids, we’ve been asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” But what happens if we can’t see anyone who looks or feels like us doing the thing we dream of? In this episode, we dive into the profound impact of representation in the workforce and the barriers it creates or breaks down. We discuss the mental and social hurdles—from Imposter Syndrome and gender stereotypes to the challenges of creating your own dream job when the path isn’t already paved.
Our conversation explores everything from the influence of childhood toys on career expectations to the societal judgments women face about work, family, and self-worth. We’ll unpack why so many people feel compelled to “choose” between career and family, the effect of the wage gap on gender equity, and the power of transparency about salaries. Plus, we touch on the cultural and economic shifts pushing us to define and redefine our roles.
We'll also be joined by our special guest Sally Garrison, who shares their own journey of breaking stereotypes, overcoming biases, and carving out a unique career path.
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Losing the War over the Armrest: Are there unspoken rules you've assumed in your own mind that prevent you from speaking out or moving forward?

Have you ever found yourself conceding the armrest in a crowded theater or airplane, not out of generosity but out of habit, driven by a set of unspoken “rules” you’ve created in your mind? In this episode, we dive into these invisible boundaries—those subconscious assumptions and self-imposed constraints that govern our everyday actions. We’ll explore why we keep quiet, why we avoid conflict, and how these silent rules can prevent us from stepping into our full potential. Join us for a conversation about recognizing and redefining these assumptions, so you can stop losing battles you never wanted to fight and start moving forward with clarity and confidence.
 
Joining us this week is our first male guest, Bradley Weaver (https://bradleyweaver.net). He's spent a lifetime keeping quiet and just recently began finding his voice to speak up on things that are important to him. We can't wait for you to hear our conversation. 
 
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Putting on a brave face: Why is no one talking to each other?

In this week's episode, we dive into the reasons why so many women feel the pressure to put on a brave face, even when facing difficult challenges. From the fear of being judged to the internalized expectation of handling everything perfectly, we explore the emotional toll of staying silent about big issues. Join us for an honest conversation about vulnerability, strength, and the courage it takes to let others in.We'll also be joined by Annie Abrahamson, mom of two, and one half of the petal-pushing team over at Bloom Bar. We adore her open, honest nature, and think you will, too! Such great discussion on this week's topic!
 
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Why is there such a lack of accountability?

In this week's episode, we explore the roots of our struggle with accountability —why we avoid it, where the guilt stems from, and the deep-seated reasons asking for help feels so difficult when we don't know the answers. We'll unpack the social and emotional factors that make owning our mistakes uncomfortable and offer insights on how to build a healthier relationship with seeking support and guidance.We'll also be joined by Marissa DeCuir, a total boss btch, President and Partner of Books Forward, and possibly the biggest Kesha fan you'll ever come across. She's had a lot of experience when it comes to accountability, and we're thrilled to have her share her thoughts on the matter. Would you like to share your feedback on this episode or suggest a question for a future episode?  Connect with us on Instagram @btchfestpod or email us directly at btchfestpod@gmail.com.

The Trauma Response: Why do we have such loyalty to complete strangers?

Ever find yourself going above and beyond to please someone that is nowhere near your inner circle? It may be your trauma response at work! Whether from childhood, past relationships or insecurity, Ami and Sami are going to discuss their own experiences and try to break down where all of this comes from.We'll also be joined by Shaleen DeStefano, a fellow recovering "people-pleaser" who shares some very interesting insight on her own experience, as well as her perspective on how social media contributes to this response.  
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Why do we get caught in relationships that are bad for us?

Join Ami and Sami as they openly discuss issues that strongly affect women so we can heal trauma and inspire change, one question at a time. 
 
In this week's episode, we explore our own histories of bad relationships and why it took us far too long to get out. We'll also look into why we, as women, feel the responsibility to have a certain type of relationship, and where our initial assumptions of that definition came from. After talking to so many friends, it seems that so many of us have had at least one experience where we've felt "stuck" and unable to move forward in our romantic lives. 
 
We'll also be joined by Licensed Professional Counselor Ellen Burn, whose passion is helping others embrace and process their emotions in healthy ways. We thought it would be super handy to have an expert for this topic! You can find more information on Ellen and her work at findclaritywithellen.com. 
 
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Thanks for listening! 

Can We Be Rid of the Term "Broken Home"?

Join Ami and Sami as they openly discuss issues that strongly affect women so we can heal trauma and inspire change, one question at a time. 
 
In this week's episode, we'll dive into the age-old term "Broken-Home": where it comes from, why is still exists and why we think it's outdated. We'll talk about divorce and separation, expectations of marriage from society and life and dating in the aftermath. This week we're joined by Emily Rathbun, who shares her own experience in her own hilarious, authentic manner. We love a genuine btch. 
 
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Thanks for listening!